Married & rushing?

[rococobaby]

Thanks so much for your input, it's really helpful to hear other people's opinions. It is a more traditional Greek school, but in general students there are fairly accepting. I feel like I still have a lot in common with girls my age except for the interest in finding a boyfriend (which I'm more than happy to be rid of!). That's not to say that I look down on girls as immature if they're not married or engaged. I really hope that I can show people I do want to be treated just like any PNM... I don't think I would have the attitude where I would think an activity was stupid or irrelevant just because I'm married, that's just not my personality at all.

Are houses with live-in policies 100% strict about it? I know at the school I currently am at (as opposed to the one I'm hopefully transferring to) there are exceptions for girls like me.

As for my husband, he is definitely supportive of me joining greek life. As for socials, ect. he would be fine with me going, because he trusts me. If it was possible to bring him as a date to a social that would be great, but if not he would be fine with it. We're both comfortable with sometimes having time apart and attending social events alone if the occasion calls for it. I'm grateful for your concern though :]

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by rococobaby

Thanks so much for your input, it's really helpful to hear other people's opinions. It is a more traditional Greek school, but in general students there are fairly accepting. I feel like I still have a lot in common with girls my age except for the interest in finding a boyfriend (which I'm more than happy to be rid of!). That's not to say that I look down on girls as immature if they're not married or engaged. I really hope that I can show people I do want to be treated just like any PNM... I don't think I would have the attitude where I would think an activity was stupid or irrelevant just because I'm married, that's just not my personality at all.

Are houses with live-in policies 100% strict about it? I know at the school I currently am at (as opposed to the one I'm hopefully transferring to) there are exceptions for girls like me.

As for my husband, he is definitely supportive of me joining greek life. As for socials, ect. he would be fine with me going, because he trusts me. If it was possible to bring him as a date to a social that would be great, but if not he would be fine with it. We're both comfortable with sometimes having time apart and attending social events alone if the occasion calls for it. I'm grateful for your concern though :]

Every chapter has its own live-in policy. If the chapter has one, I would assume that they plan to enforce it.

I don't know whether chapters make exceptions for that (mine didn't).

I'm saying this just to say that a chapter with a live-in requirement might pass on a married PNM because she wouldn't be able to live in.

[rococobaby]

Oh okay, thanks for clarifying. You're so helpful!