I would like genuine advice please

[sigmadiva]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

I wish there was a way for me to impart to aspirants that although we are very happy with your achievements in life and presume you to be gentlemen, we still need to KNOW you in order to call you our Brother.

For me, at least, if I enjoy kicking it with you on a non-fraternity tip, you've got my vote. If I LIKE you, you can have a shaky GPA and zero community service -- you can be taught those things.

It's subjective for a reason and I am okay with that.

This is very true! Especially the last sentence.

To the OP - you were given great advice. You may just need to learn how to read between the lines, so to speak. Sometimes people will tell you what you need to know, they just may not be direct with it.