I would like genuine advice please

[RealoReal]

Originally Posted by OTW

It does matter. NPHC intake is very different than the selection process I went through in the NPC.

Why would you welcome the advice and suggestions from those who clearly do not know what you're experiencing right now?

The experience is rejection...everyone from either council can relate. The point is being rejected, and also not receiving a bid are pretty similar, and trying again.

Thanks

Real

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by RealoReal

The experience is rejection...everyone from either council can relate. The point is being rejected, and also not receiving a bid are pretty similar, and trying again.

Thanks

Real

Yes, all councils have members that get rejected. It's what happens after that varies. That's why we said what we did.

Read what jojapeach and Sen typed.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by RealoReal

The experience is rejection...everyone from either council can relate.

Thanks

Real

How people deal with rejection differs across councils. You're only an aspirant. Don't pretend to know it all when you're talking to GLO members.

Reflect on that as it pertains to your real life interactions with members of that NPHC sorority. It may be the case that they did not know you enough and it may also be that they did not like the little that they know about you. That may be why they don't seem that genuine.

All in all, you're asking us something you should be able to figure out on your own. You can gauge from your attendance at chapter programs and interactions with those women whether or not they want you to try again and whether they would be more receptive the second time around. We wouldn't be able to tell you that.