I would like genuine advice please

[KSUViolet06]

I find that with any type of advice/question thread with PNMs or NPHC aspirants, the thread is guaranteed to go south when they start with the "know it all" thing.

If you think about it, if a PNM or aspirant knew ir all, they'd already BE in a sorority.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

If you think about it, if a PNM or aspirant knew ir all, they'd already BE in a sorority.

Or they'd be an aspirant who doesn't need to ask us questions.

[RealoReal]

I would like to know at what point in my post did I say that I knew it all. The only thing I do know is that I would like information from anyone going through a similar situation. Yet you get that negative person who only sees with a negative eye instead of seeing the positivity in someone seeking help


Real

[33girl]

Originally Posted by RealoReal

I would like to know at what point in my post did I say that I knew it all. The only thing I do know is that I would like information from anyone going through a similar situation. Yet you get that negative person who only sees with a negative eye instead of seeing the positivity in someone seeking help


Real

Honey, I tried to do something nice for you. The last thing you need to hear in this thread is a million people saying "well phooey on them! There is a better sorority out there for you!! Go through rush again and keep your options open!!" Because, ya know, that's exactly what NPC members would have said. Because that's exactly what the NPC mindset is. It is THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE of NPHC membership pursuit. I was trying to spare you from advice that would be absolutely irrelevant to your situation.

Don't piss on the platter of no bake cookies I left on your doorstep.

[RealoReal]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Honey, I tried to do something nice for you. The last thing you need to hear in this thread is a million people saying "well phooey on them! There is a better sorority out there for you!! Go through rush again and keep your options open!!" Because, ya know, that's exactly what NPC members would have said. Because that's exactly what the NPC mindset is. It is THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE of NPHC membership pursuit. I was trying to spare you from advice that would be absolutely irrelevant to your situation.

Don't piss on the platter of no bake cookies I left on your doorstep.

I appreciate it. Thank you for the advice


Real

[LadyLonghorn]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Don't piss on the platter of no bake cookies I left on your doorstep.

33Girl FTW