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Originally Posted by DrPhil
KSU and I weren't saying not to talk to anyone and seek help.
I'm sure you chose a particular time and place to talk to your friends and sister. I'm also sure you didn't talk to them via a message board. That's what we're saying.
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And I realize and know that KSU and you weren't saying not to seek help or talk to anyone.
However, I didn't chose a particular time and place to talk with my friends and sister. Hey they just happened to come up in discussion. In fact, with my friends and co-workers, it was at dinner in the cafe where I was working.
But that's how life works, it isn't necessarily a "time and place" sometimes, things just come up and you deal with them as they come.
For a perfect example, one day, I had a job interview. That morning, my dog decided to run around the farm. Problem was that the cows were out and he is a cow dog. They are known for rounding up the herd, but no body asked his butt to do so. Anyways, he ended up getting kicked by the bull. Now this fool knows that he's 14 and that this is a young bull. But hey, he wanted to be a fool and impress the younger dog and let the bull know who was in charge. Anyways, when this happened, I had to scramble, get him in the car, and rush him to the vet. And again, I still had to get to my job interview. I was able to make it there and back and still kept the dog in tact.
My point is that, this is life, you learn how to deal with things, not necessarily at certain "times and places." You have to learn how to just deal. And if on a message board, it's able to help someone in learning how to deal with an issue, then go for it.
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