de-pledging ?

[honeychile]

Someone asked me about this exact scenario a few years back. I urged her to try her best, to get to know the sisters better, and to try to keep the other new members who were dropping together for the next year.

Almost a year to the day she was initiated, she cancelled her membership. I won't go into the details, but her life at the house had become intolerable, and I fully yet sadly understand her decision.

This is such a personal decision that NOBODY but you can make. If you're initiated, and it doesn't improve, you may come to hate greek life. If you drop, you don't stand a wonderful chance next year - unless you know sisters in other sororities extremely well.

Make a list of Pros and Cons, keeping an open mind, but also remembering that greek life is never all cute & fluffy. Hope you make the decision which is right for YOU.