de-pledging ?

[PeppyGPhiB]

Honestly, I don't think my chapter would have ever given a bid to someone who had de-pledged another chapter on campus. Not only would we doubt her loyalty, but since we were friendly with the other chapters, we wouldn't want to strain those relationships either.

Originally Posted by PeppyGPhiB

Honestly, I don't think my chapter would have ever given a bid to someone who had de-pledged another chapter on campus. Not only would we doubt her loyalty, but since we were friendly with the other chapters, we wouldn't want to strain those relationships either.

See, I was on the opposite end of the spectrum.

I de-pledged a local because they hazed the shit outta me. AGD gave me a bid because they believed that I should see what true sisterhood was about.

To the OP, follow what 33girl said. If you decide to leave, there's no way to tell whether or not you'll get a bid next year. But, as you've said, you've got 2 strikes against you already. And, should you choose to rush again next year, you'll be rushing with girls who have no strikes against them. Also keep in mind that so many things can happen between now and next Fall -- things that could potentially hurt your chances even more. Are you willing to take that risk?