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Originally Posted by wannab1ofu
for the last two years i have attended many events for membership in a certain graduate level sorority. i will attend events make contacts and then nothing. recently i was sent an invite for yet another fundraiser from a member of the chapter and i am unsure of whether or not i sholud continue to buy tickets to these events if nothing ever becomes of these meetings but an occ email or phone call. I do not know any member fully, but it seems as if grad chapters are more into getting funds than adding quality members. any advice?
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I don't understand how you can have attended "many events" and not yet "know any member" well.
Without knowing anything more than you have posted, I would suggest connecting with the members on some level beyond "attending". Participating and having converstations is a great way to start. How can you expect to be invited to be a member of any organization that requires a membership process, if no one knows you?
It's up to YOU to try to get to know people in this situation, not the other way around.
Lastly, if I am correct, this post should be in a different forum. I only replied bc it's in a general forum.