graduate sorority question

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by XSK_Diamond

In some sororities, AI is by invitation only (no application process) and "discretion" is mandated. The only acceptable way a woman can show her interest is by attending events the sorority sponsors, and trying to get to know current graduate members in the hopes of them liking her enough to extend her an invitation to join. Sometimes these events (it seems like in her case, all the events) require the purchase of a ticket to attend.

The way it's set up, it looks like she's trying to buy her way into membership, but the reality is buying an event ticket and "mingling" to make contacts is the only acceptable way she can show her interest at this level. AI hopefuls, who don't already have contacts, have no other choice but to do what the OP did.

That's not what the OP said.