Is mutual selection really mutual?

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by sherryanne

Couldn't one argue that the mutual selection is a bit unfair? Sure, you and PNM #2 both talked to two actives individually, but PNM ##2 has a best friend in the house, whose influence is probably stronger than those that met her for only a few minutes - thus, PNM #2 would have an advantage when it came to ranking PNMs...? Unless I am wrong about the whole friends part - do active friends/relatives in the house have a say even though they don't necessarily get to talk to the PNM?

I think talking about ranking PNMs, influence, and friends in houses treads into Membership Selection, which is private info.