Is mutual selection really mutual?

[WinniBug]

Originally Posted by sherryanne

Couldn't one argue that the mutual selection is a bit unfair? Sure, you and PNM #2 both talked to two actives individually, but PNM ##2 has a best friend in the house, whose influence is probably stronger than those that met her for only a few minutes - thus, PNM #2 would have an advantage when it came to ranking PNMs...? Unless I am wrong about the whole friends part - do active friends/relatives in the house have a say even though they don't necessarily get to talk to the PNM?

I don't understand your question, exactly....

[33girl]

Originally Posted by WinniBug

I don't understand your question, exactly....

I think she is asking is if only the people who actually talk to the rushee get to vote. Of course, that is membership selection info and not for public consumption.