advice needed...marriage/engagement problem.

[PhoenixAzul]

She said yes to you while you were a pizza delivery guy. That means that, degree or no, you are worthy of her love, that she LOVES you, and doesn't care about the prestige of your job.

People do this often..."we'll (get married/have a child) when (we make more money/have a house/pay off the credit cards)". The short answer is that...well, these things might not ever happen, like you may never have "enough" money or the "right" job. But you have *a* job and you're looking for one, you're not laying there like some overcooked eggplant, you're doing SOMETHING, and you obviously want to marry this woman because you're stressing about this.

Get to a counselor, sort yourself out, take a deep breath, send some CV's, and keep working. Never let anyone deny you your dignity because of your job. You work, you make an honest living. That is nothing to be ashamed of.

[BetteDavisEyes]

Originally Posted by PhoenixAzul

She said yes to you while you were a pizza delivery guy. That means that, degree or no, you are worthy of her love, that she LOVES you, and doesn't care about the prestige of your job.


Never let anyone deny you your dignity because of your job. You work, you make an honest living. That is nothing to be ashamed of.

Co-sign to both!

She loves you. The title and prestige of your job is of little importance to her. 3 years is definitely long enough. She has stuck by you through all these years so it's time to go through with marrying a good woman.