advice needed...marriage/engagement problem.

[Benzgirl]

She is right, three years is long enough regardless of your financial status. I don't think your situation is any different from a reverse role where the guy manks the money. You are basing it too much on what you think other people think.

Would it be any different after you have children if you were a stay at home dad?

[Jill1228]

Originally Posted by Benzgirl

She is right, three years is long enough regardless of your financial status. I don't think your situation is any different from a reverse role where the guy manks the money. You are basing it too much on what you think other people think.

Would it be any different after you have children if you were a stay at home dad?

Exactly! Granted, I know that it is hell on the ego. But, 3 years is long enough

You need to shit or get off the pot! If she is cool with it, screw what others think