"2 or 3 sweethearts passing out snacks"- nice! Good luck getting respectable and achievement-minded women to respect that viewpoint.
Rush is about a group of men showing potential members that their GLO is a place that winners want to be.
Intelligent, socially adept quality women being present at such events is the ultimate indication that a fraternity's membership are winners who are destined to do well in life- and that is what brings in top rushees. The women who attend fraternity rush events say more about the men of that fraternity than anything else.
And women like that are not going to whore themselves out to rushees or do the other kinds of things that you and- apparently some universities- assume is what happens when women attend rush events. A chapter that brings whores to parties is a bottom tier chapter of people who lack the social manners and skills to be winners- plain and simple. No university rule or feel-good rule about "rush is all about the guys" will ever change that doom.
Well bred and well raised men and women interact at social functions from their earliest days- starting with birthday parties, then etiquette or social training in school or through the local Junior League (at my school we all took ballroom training in 6th grade), then on to high school formals and proms- and then to college.
It makes no sense to suddenly break that up during fraternity rush.
Give me a good reason why there should not be ladies at rush parties- a GOOD reason.
If your reason is a fear of rape, promiscuity etc.- then save it. That just means you have the wrong guys and/or the wrong women in attendance.
Explain to me why quality women are a negative influence in fraternity rush.
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