Open Letter 8

[RedefinedDiva]

Originally Posted by MeezDiscreet

Dear RD,

Isn't it funny how God works?!

Dear MD,

It TRULY is!!

I need to start packing today since I'm bored out of my mind. The position begins on Sept. 15, so I'm going to be moving. Everyone thought I was crazy when I told them last week that I needed to start packing. They asked, "You're going to pack without even knowing if you have the job?" My response has always, "Oh, but I know already."

[nikki1920]

Dear RD:

Congrats!! Where we moving to? :P

LYLAS,
Nikki1920

[RedefinedDiva]

Dear Nikki:

I'll be moving to Monroe. It's a small city/town in North La. It should be a good change of pace. There is actually little to no "pace" there, but I think that will be good for me to spend some time getting to know myself. I'm excited about it. Plus, it's good experience AND a paycheck! LOL! I'm so broke that I'll go wherever the money invites me these days! LMAO!

RD


Dear MT:

I just found you on a school website and I don't know how I feel about it. I sent you a friend request and now I don't know if that was a good idea. I don't know how I feel about you. You were my first real love and I was yours. We didn't know anything about being "in love," but somehow, we pulled it off. After all this time, I think I still have a tiny, itsy-bitsy, miniscule, minute little speck of love for you. Maybe that's why I think I can't stand you. But, I've grown up a lot, as I'm sure you have as well. I know that we could never be in a relationship again, but I so want to be friends. We've tried to be friends seevral times before, but it didn't work. Let's make it work this time.

Dear AP and SS:

You two TRULY are my best friends. I just do not know how to tell you that I miss you. I love you two so much, but I am so afraid that we won't be abe to mend our friendship that I don't even bother trying. I really don't know how we got to this point, but it really hurts me that we are not like we used to be. What can we do? I want my friends back. I pray that we can work this out.

[nikki1920]

Dear RD:
Sometimes an email works. You can say what you want to say and literally let it go. I had a falling out with two of my closest friends, and there were a few nasty emails, then nothing. Then about 4 months later, an email from one and we are back to where we were, almost. Do something. At least you would have tried.


Dear everyone:
Life is short. A client that I spoke to on Monday has passed away. She has a 4 year old son. I don't know the details, but it just reminds me, again, of how short life truly is. Enjoy it while you are here.

Nikki

[RedefinedDiva]

Dear Nikki:

I'm going to take your advice. I will be writing letters to my friends. I have attempted actual conversations, but I cannot stand to be interrupted when I am being genuine. One of the friends in particular loves to discredit and invalidate my feelings when I am trying to explain my side of the story. This pisses me off and causes me to shut down. Then, I don't want to talk anymore. More time passes and the rift widens. However, I am going to write everything down in a letter, thus insuring that I won't be interrupted. If they want to talk after, fine. If not, cool. At least my chest will be clear.

I have decided that I am ready to wave the white flag. I am always fighting for "my side" or my position, but I am ready to take on 100% of the blame if that's what it takes to mend my friendship. I can go tit-for-tat with them and it doesn't resolve anything. In fact, it makes things worse. So now, I am ready to take all of the blame, put it behind me, and see what we can do to move on from here. If the friendships have truly run their course, I am take that. I just cannot bear the burden of a heavy heart anymore. Like you said, life is too short.

RD


Dear J:

What is wrong, sweetie? You made it perfectly clear that you just weren't that into me. It took me a minute to figure out, but once I took off the rose-colored glasses, it was clear as day. However, you still send me these random texts just to see how I'm doing.

::blank stare:: Spare me.

I think that you are REALLY just keeping the lines of communication open for the times that you get bored. Perhaps you are trying to hang on just in case I make it big with this law thing. Maybe you think I'm a damn duck and don't know any better. Whatever the case may be, gimme a break. I don't have the time. You had your chance. Get lost.

RD

P.S. Please don't anticipate me telling you that I'm moving to your city for this job. You won't even know I'm there unless we run into one another in the grocery store at Blockbuster or something. I don't want your head to be all gassed up, thinking that I'm moving there for YOU. Nor do I want you to believe that you will just be "passing over" to my house or anything else of the sort. I am ready to mend broken friendships and build healthy ones. Please don't wind up on the "Write Off" list. If you are TRULY interested in being a friend, shape up, brother.

[jitterbug13]

Originally Posted by RedefinedDiva

Dear J:

What is wrong, sweetie? You made it perfectly clear that you just weren't that into me. It took me a minute to figure out, but once I took off the rose-colored glasses, it was clear as day. However, you still send me these random texts just to see how I'm doing.

::blank stare:: Spare me.

I think that you are REALLY just keeping the lines of communication open for the times that you get bored. Perhaps you are trying to hang on just in case I make it big with this law thing. Maybe you think I'm a damn duck and don't know any better. Whatever the case may be, gimme a break. I don't have the time. You had your chance. Get lost.

RD

RD, I'm going to borrow a part of your letter. I hope you don't mind.

Dear J or whatever the devil your name is (since you lie so much),

See the letter RD wrote? Some of this applies to you! If you really wanted to be with me, YOU could have made an effort. But since you want to disappear and text me, not call, whenever you're ready, I'm not giving you the time of day. And the only reason I said "I need time to think" is because I want you to feel some of what I have been when I was still "under your spell". But I'll wait until you call me again to give you the official heave-ho.

JB13

P.S. I gave the Alpha hat I bought you to an Alpha who was more deserving of it.

[Senusret I]

Dear JB13:

I am all about the gift of para, even if it wasn't originally meant for me. Thank you for the hat.

Senusret I

[Boom_Quack13]

Dear T-Mobile,

Please just release me from my contract, sans the $200 ETF. I have had it up to my eyeballs with the dropped calls. You have been really nice and helpful throughout my 4+ years with you. But there comes a time, when you just have to part ways when the relationship is no longer mutually beneficial. And that time has come. Release me. Let me go. :-(

Boom

[jitterbug13]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

Dear JB13:

I am all about the gift of para, even if it wasn't originally meant for me. Thank you for the hat.

Senusret I

LMAO!!!! You're welcome!

[nikki1920]

Dear RD:
go for it. Your heart will be lighter.

Dear car:
Jerome, I loved you for 12 years, 207k miles plus. If it's time for you to go to car heaven, then I will miss you and will let you go. That temperature light being on red caused me great distress as we drove home tonight.

Thanks for the great memories,
Nikki

Dear family:
It was great being around you all today. Here's to family!!

Ronnie's youngest daughter

[I.A.S.K.]

Dear RD,
Told ya you are great. The move will be great as well!

Dear Uinversity Fam,
I love you all. There are so many people who hate on us, but there is nothing like our bond. I've been all around the world and lived many places, but there is no place like HOME! I <3 My Skool. ( Yeah I know I'll be posting the EXACT opposite whe I have to go talk to Admin. and financial Aid people on Monday, but for right now I will let the love fester.)

[KAPPAtivating]

Dear Sexy Young Lady,

I am finished working overtime to win your affection. My costs are definitely outweighing the benefits. Therefore consider your stock SOLD! And because you THINK you are irreplaceable, already began investing stock in someone else effective TODAY. It's been real!

Never was yours,

KAPPAtivating

PS...your ex (which I already know you've been kicking it with) will NEVER be me!

[BlessedOne04]

Dear Asst Superint.
I just want to know why you are always trying to play me. You know good and hayle well you didn't order all that you said because I've been trying to get with you for weeks on this issue. You took so long and now you are looking crazy. Stop trying to get over because I'm going to send you a bill for that stunt you pulled today. That is all

BlessedOne

[RedefinedDiva]

Dear Everyone Keeping Up with the Job Progress:

I didn't get the job. I was a little depressed yesterday, but I quickly rebounded. I am putting a new plan into effect and I am sure that I'll be much better in the long run. This was my last ditch effort for (current) independance, but without this job, I have to move out of my own place and back with my mom for a while. Everyone that has lived on his/her own KNOWS that going back to live with your parents is THE PITS!!! But, I'm looking at the bright side and know that all this struggle has to serve a greater purpose. I'll be OK.

Dear Soror D:

I know you get tired of me sending you those long winded Facebook messages, but I REALLY do appreciate you listening and offering your help, assistance, encouragement, etc. I love you!!!

[unspokenone25]

^^

Soror T: ...we help each other... I'll respond to your message later this evening. I love you, will always be a listening ear, and will always help whenever I can. Remember, this too shall pass...


Soror Unspokenone