Interesting - when I was in school, our chapter policy was that anyone with a 'No Rec' from an alumnae was cut after first round - no questions asked. Of course I wasn't Rush Chair or President so I don't know what went on behind the scenes.
I think most people are trying to avoid what may be considered membership selection. (my chapter did so, too)
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