Having Second Thoughts..

[Kedzman]

Don't quit and go elsewhere. You made a commitment to membership and you owe it to yourself and the organization to honor that commitment. You can still be friends with the members of other organizations. Some day you will get married. It would be poor advise to break the covenent with your wife to pursue another relationship. Make an investment in the right relationships and in the organization to make it better. Those investments will pay off for the organization and for you, personally. Work to bring out the best in people and the organization. Expose those who are negative in fraternal relationships and organizational development. Don't just complain, but instead, offer better solutions. You will face challenges, but that will make you stronger. Do the right thing

[honeychile]

You've been a member of ABC for two and half years, maybe more, if you count the time you spent pledging. What you have is a case of burn out, nothing more.

Try to hang in there, even if it means going in and out the back door. Keep your friends in other fraternities, because chances are that they're going through the same thing.

SoCal girl has some very good advice!