I wonder what would happen if...

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

None of this is appropriate for a ZOO TOUR. So, yeah, you were being a pain in the ass.

Regardless of our career specializations and our interests, you have to know when to turn it off. I know which settings I can have certain discussions, ask probing questions, and challenge people when they say something that I know is incorrect based on research or something concrete. People say incorrect things all the time and, even when I pretend like I'm joking, challenging people everytime I can (which is all the time, usually) is being a pain in the ass.

If you had said "we're not really cousins, though," that would've been better than going on and on about something that you know she didn't really know about. Turn it off the next time you partake in a zoo tour.

My God, DSTCHAOS you do it all the time. As you mentioned you do it everytime you can. Well, in this case I did too. People had questions and so did I. At the end she asked does anyone have any questions, people had questions and so did I. The next time I partake in a zoo tour, if the tour guide opens it up for questions, no I'm not turning anything off. If I have questions, I'm going to ask, and if I feel he/she is wrong I'm going to challenge him/her. If that's being an ass, then...oh well.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

My God, DSTCHAOS you do it all the time. As you mentioned you do it everytime you can.

No.

I don't post everything that comes to mind on GC and I don't say everything that comes to mind in "real life."

(Perhaps you misunderstood what I typed.)

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

If that's being an ass, then...oh well.

Well, this is a brand new admission. Just understand that there are consequences to being an ass and not knowing when to turn it off. I'm sure the zoo guide was asking for basic questions that didn't require an in depth discussion of genetics that would show her up. When you are clearly showing someone up on their job, know when to back off a little.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

No.

I don't post everything that comes to mind on GC and I don't say everything that comes to mind in "real life."

I don't either on every subject. I do if the subject is of interest to me though, and this one is.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

I don't either on every subject. I do if the subject is of interest to me though, and this one is.

Uh huh...so like I said....

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Uh huh...so like I said....

Well, DSTCHAOS I respect many of your post (pretty much all of them) but you challenge a lot of people on here, and like you said, in real life too which I admire in you but "what you said" to me was pretty hypocritical. I've read many of your post where you'll ask another poster a lot of questions and then eventually you'll start challenging them. I don't think I did anything different.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Well, DSTCHAOS I respect many of your post (pretty much all of them) but you challenge a lot of people on here, and like you said, in real life too which I admire in you but "what you said" to me was pretty hypocritical. I've read many of your post where you'll ask another poster a lot of questions and then eventually you'll start challenging them. I don't think I did anything different.

Since you don't know how my brain operates and how much I censor myself on here and in person, you should just take my advice to "turn it off sometimes" for what it is. Put it in your pocket and pull it out when you need it.

You were at a zoo tour, for goodness sake. It's important to remember that the things that interest you don't necessarily make everyone else swoon. GC threads are different than in person interactions where people can't log you off if they want you to shut up. You will be an extremely annoying person if you insist on engaging in these types of discussions (especially in an "I know, but you don't" kind of way) without thought to where you are and who you are talking to.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Since you don't know how my brain operates and how much I censor myself on here and in person, you should just take my advice to "turn it off sometimes" for what it is. Put it in your pocket and pull it out when you need it.

You were at a zoo tour, for goodness sake. It's important to remember that the things that interest you don't necessarily make everyone else swoon. GC threads are different than in person interactions where people can't log you off if they want you to shut up. You will be an extremely annoying person if you insist on engaging in these types of discussions (especially in an "I know, but you don't" kind of way) without thought to where you are and who you are talking to.

But she asked if we had questions. So I asked.

But I'll take your advice. You make sense.

Thank you.

BTW: I try to pick your brain whenever I can.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Well, this is a brand new admission. Just understand that there are consequences to being an ass and not knowing when to turn it off. I'm sure the zoo guide was asking for basic questions that didn't require an in depth discussion of genetics that would show her up. When you are clearly showing someone up on their job, know when to back off a little.

I missed this part.

o.k. but I wasn't trying to embarrass her. I just had questions. That's all. Actually, I thought my questions were pretty basic.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

I missed this part.

o.k. but I wasn't trying to embarrass her. I just had questions. That's all. Actually, I thought my questions were pretty basic.

You said you knew she was inaccurate and didn't know. You had basic questions that you knew were probably challenging her limited knowledge-base. When people do that they have to understand that there's a thin line between challenging discourse and being an asshole show-off.

What better way to put a dunce cap on her and put yourself at the forefront as the leading authority during a ZOO TOUR.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

You said you knew she was inaccurate and didn't know. You had basic questions that you knew were probably challenging her limited knowledge-base. When people do that they have to understand that there's a thin line between challenging discourse and being an asshole show-off.

What better way to put a dunce cap on her and put yourself at the forefront as the leading authority during a ZOO TOUR.

.....like watching a tennis match.....LOL


I love it....

[TexasWSP]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

My God, DSTCHAOS you do it all the time. As you mentioned you do it everytime you can. Well, in this case I did too. People had questions and so did I. At the end she asked does anyone have any questions, people had questions and so did I. The next time I partake in a zoo tour, if the tour guide opens it up for questions, no I'm not turning anything off. If I have questions, I'm going to ask, and if I feel he/she is wrong I'm going to challenge him/her. If that's being an ass, then...oh well.

When I've been on zoo tours, people's questions at the end usually ranged from "where is the nearest bathroom" to "when can I watch the lions being fed small furry animals" to "where can I find little Timmy here a Steve the Giraffe backpack...........not, "please explain gene sequencing in primates as it relates to in vitro fertilization in humans." That's like asking Steven Hawking his thoughts on the designated hitter and its affect on the strategic nuances of baseball over the past 30 years. He'd probably slap you with his feeding tube.