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Originally Posted by AZMOM
Lisa,
As tactfully as I know how to ask this question. Why is there such fear in asking a simple question that girls here seem terrified in answering? Is it just this forum or this the way the Greeks live? Don't ask and don't answer? This is rather shocking to me....
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This has already been answered for you, not once, but twice:
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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle
I think I can speak for most GCers when I say we don't like to characterize sorority chapters - it is too easy to stereotype or to be biased. Plus, unless you are talking to a current collegian, the odds are that the opinion being offered is based on an analysis of members who aren't even there anymore. Things can change quickly in the Greek world - one or two great pledge classes can turn a chapter around.
So my advice is to have your daughter poke around here and especially read the stickies on the recruitment pages. If she visits the campus, she should try to meet some sorority members if possible. And above all else, she should try to keep an open mind as she goes through recruitment.
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Originally Posted by kstar
Also, you don't ask that question, which predisposes people to not be nice.
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(I bolded what you should commit to memory, but the rest of each of the above quotes are just as important.)
Its about being polite & tactful-and not asking others to speak poorly of an organization's chapters.
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