Bad news

[SWTXBelle]

Formal recruitment is not the best way for MANY. I personally am a big fan of informal (or whatever the young whipper snappers are calling it these days - COB/COR) because it is possible for girls who are not as out-going to become better known, and to in turn get to know the GLO members better, too.
Try not to take it all so personally. I know, I know, it's hard not to - but understand that formal recruitment is an imperfect system that can sometimes let good quality PNMs fall through the cracks. It's the best we've been able to come up with, but still not 100%.
Become involved on your campus in other organizations, and see what happens in term of recruitment opportunities.
Good luck - I really hope you find your sisterhood.

eta - I didn't realize you had gone through informal before.

[_Lisa_]

Originally Posted by SWTXBelle

Become involved on your campus in other organizations, and see what happens in term of recruitment opportunities.

Echoing this sentiment because its the most important thing you can do. Becoming involved with other campus activities is the quickest way to meet new people & break out of this stigma you have set for yourself.