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Old 07-13-2007, 12:31 PM
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Honestly, this won't change because you read her a book or make a pointed effort to find the right movie. You have to really review your own behavior and the messages you send and the things you say (which it sounds like you've already done). What movies do you watch? What models do you admire and remark on? Her father? Her grandparents (grandparents do sooooo much damage without meaning to)?

Buying her a book may help, but the only way to change the attitude is consistent positive reinforcement that she is beautiful and black is beautiful.
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