What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by kddani

Granted, I do agree that he is overreacting. But at the same time, metaphors like your examples aren't cool when it comes to describing oneself. Unless maybe you're writing poetry or something creative. Even then, terms like you used are sorta corny.

The way I see it, if you're having to describe yourself in the first place, you are obviously using either the internet or some sort of dating service, as people who have met in person, don't generally describe themselves to one another - so you're already "that person" anyway.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Not too long ago my best friend set me up on a blind date that I didn't want to go on, but he talked me into it. She and I talked on the phone for a few hours, a week before our date. She wanted to go see a movie (bad place on a 1st date), so we met at the theater. This girl was so short it was insane. She was o.k. looking, very insecure, but extremely short. I was so mad at myself for letting my buddy talk me into going out with her. I'm 5'8' so I'm no giant, but I can't go out with a woman barely 5 feet.

PrettyBoy you're a little guy. I'm 5'7". I don't wear really high heels but the heels I do wear I would stilll be taller than you. We should start calling you PrettyshortBoy. LOL.

[PrettyBoy]

The girl I went out with on the blind date was actually 4'11". That's way too short. I've gone out with a women that was 5'6", and that height was cool. When she wore heals we were about the same height. I wouldn't go with a woman who was taller than me, plus women that wear really high heels like the stilettos (not sure how to spell it, but you guys no what I mean) that's a turn off to me. I like the lower business type of heal, so women that are 5"6' are great, and I just remeasured myself too. I'm actually 5'9". I wasn't too far off though. 5'8"/5'9" same thing.