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I'll tell you what not to say-"we only had a certain number of spots and unfortunately we couldn't take everyone we liked." Then the PNM goes ahead and sees the 17-18 person NM class and the fact that the sorority is holding COB. Yeah, out of space my ass. (My personal anecdote by the way.)
I would have preferred not being lied to and I think the best thing said to me was "we don't think you are a good fit for our chapter, but would do better in a different chapter. Good luck with the rest of recruitment." Or even leaving out the first bit and just saying the last part so as not to get sticky with MS.
It really hurts getting rejected but you can't tell her the things you've written. Just say you thought she might do better in a different chapter. Nice, subtle, positive. Leave it at that.
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I'll take trainwreck for 100 Alex.
And Jesus speaketh, "do unto others as they did unto you because the bitches deserve it".
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