What to tell a girl who didn't get a bid

[ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl]

It's nice to want to make them feel better. But I think the Gamma Rhos or Panhellenic needs to say this before Recruitment starts. Some girls are GOING to get dropped from recruitment at most schools, and they should know that going in, and should be told, in a very vague way, not to take it too personally.

[_Lisa_]

I'm surprised the Greek Life office doesn't already have a support system in place for PNM's who don't receive bids. You should suggest it to them & then leave it up to them!

[PM_Mama00]

Originally Posted by _Lisa_

I'm surprised the Greek Life office doesn't already have a support system in place for PNM's who don't receive bids. You should suggest it to them & then leave it up to them!

Greek Life isn't exactly do or die in this area, especially on the campuses with smaller systems. Most girls who don't get bids get upset and get over it, or try again through COB or the next year.

Jessica.... I suggest that if this really is a problem, and you HAVE to have something to say to this girl, maybe ask your UMD chapter. They might have some good suggestions for this situation.