My Love Life Sucks...since 10th grade!!

BellaSF · #1 12-21-2006, 03:02 PM

Today was that ghetto girl's arraignment (court) date. I went just to see what she was going to plead. When she saw me it was obvious that she was slightly aggitated. She kept on looking at me but I paid her no mind because I don't mess with trashy people...especially those that riffle through the trash can (that was mean I know...oh well).She saw my long hair was down she took her artificial hair out of it ponytail and tried to copy my hair style. She went up to the judge stating how she was remorseful...if so why no apologies? Why you making Larry* send me threatening e-mails? Why didn't you step up to me like a WOMAN that night and apologize then and there instead talking about my car and me? I wouldn't have pressed charges if she did that. I told the judge about her. I didn't want to tell the entire story because I didn't want her to get into too much trouble(I'm too nice...I know). To make the story short she recieved 6 months probation, has to pay court costs($242), repair my vehicle(almost $600) and her crazy behind was ordered to stay away from me. If she doesn't she violates her probation...and that means jail time. I'm so happy this drama is over and I passed all my classes. Oh!! And yes...Larry* STILL calls me. What a jerk!

lovelyivy84 · #2 12-21-2006, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by BellaSF

Today was that ghetto girl's arraignment (court) date. I went just to see what she was going to plead. When she saw me it was obvious that she was slightly aggitated. She kept on looking at me but I paid her no mind because I don't mess with trashy people...especially those that riffle through the trash can (that was mean I know...oh well).She saw my long hair was down she took her artificial hair out of it ponytail and tried to copy my hair style. She went up to the judge stating how she was remorseful...if so why no apologies? Why you making Larry* send me threatening e-mails? Why didn't you step up to me like a WOMAN that night and apologize then and there instead talking about my car and me? I wouldn't have pressed charges if she did that. I told the judge about her. I didn't want to tell the entire story because I didn't want her to get into too much trouble(I'm too nice...I know). To make the story short she recieved 6 months probation, has to pay court costs($242), repair my vehicle(almost $600) and her crazy behind was ordered to stay away from me. If she doesn't she violates her probation...and that means jail time. I'm so happy this drama is over and I passed all my classes. Oh!! And yes...Larry* STILL calls me. What a jerk!

Wow drama.

Just wanted to point out that there is no way she is 'making' a grown ass man send you threatening emails, sorry. You need to change your number and make sure those fools don't get the new one.

I missed out on this post when it first came around, but had a question- why did you stay friends with him in the first place after you found out he had decieved you/another woman? I mean, I just can't imagine being friends with someone who tried to play me from jump. Not AIM friends, not friendly phone buddies, nothing.

BellaSF · #3 12-21-2006, 06:29 PM

Because I'm too darn nice. That's a big problem for me.

Jody · #4 12-21-2006, 07:15 PM

You sound like you're a really great person and truly blessed. Sometimes when we have much, we feel the need to want to not isolate ourselves and want to give everyone an opportunity to be our friend. If you REALLY want to be friends with this guy, he has to EARN your friendship. He never will if you reward him with your friendship when he doesn't deserve it. Anyone who would put you in this kind of danger is NOT your friend. If you cut him off (no communication - just ignore him!!! I know it's hard but you GOT TO!) he will learn that to be around "better behaving folks" he himself has to do better.

All you're teaching him is that he can be an azz and still get the "good" girl.

thesweetestone · #5 12-22-2006, 07:48 PM

Please leave this man alone before you get physcially hurt. Please just move on.

AKA_Monet · #6 12-22-2006, 09:35 PM

^^^^What she said:

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Originally Posted by thesweetestone

Please leave this man alone before you get physcially hurt. Please just move on.

It is called domestic violence and abuse. Both of them have problems. And you are enabling... You are in a co-dependent relationship with the fool. Then, he is suckin' up all the drama between homegirl and you... You have been "set up" by him.

Like I asked before: Is the sex that good? Is his penis that sweet? Does it pay your bills and empower you to victory's heights?

Because really, life's short. You don't need anyone to treat like do-do. You can do that better by yourself. Why would you need to have anyone else do it for you? And why would you want to treat yourself like chit?