Quote:
Originally Posted by ASUADPi
Red flags:
- says on the first date that he doesn't like wearing condoms (and that he can pull out  )
- after the condom line says that he and his ex fiancee (who cheated on him multiple times) had unprotected sex quite often
(can you tell this happened to me on a first date)
|
Well, I was going to put something generic like "is rude to waiters", but since you actually went and gave an actual example that happened to you on a first date, I'll share mine.
"So the other night, I had a party and my buddy asked if he and his girl could use my bed to have sex. I said it was alright and he wanted to pay me, but I told him it wasn't necessary, cuz I have no idea how much one would charge for something like that. What do you think the going rate would be for something like that?"
And then later on during dinner:
"So this one time, my ex-girlfriend and some friends had a Passion Party, and I got a cockring. Well, later on that evening, after she and I had finished having sex, I couldn't get the cockring off. I ended up having to run down the hallway naked to get my Swiss army knife to jimmy it open."
Later on, he also mentioned how he wasn't quite over his ex. And of all the girls he had dated, she was the only one he respected. He said he thought all the other girls he dated "never lived up to their full potential".
Needless to say, I never went out with this guy again. I went out with him on that first date, because he had looked like a normal guy.

Guess looks can be deceiving.
There was another guy that I went out with that said "You know that stereotype about black guys? Yeah, it's not really true."