men make me sad

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by laylo

Almost everyone responded by challenging her thinking.

We challenged her thinking because she's 18 and worried about men as if she's had enough of them in her short life to be able to speak on it; her descriptions of herself make it look like she's either joking around or sadly mistaken about what life's about; and her pattern is finding men who cheat on her which probably means she's looking for the wrong things in a mate.

[laylo]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

We challenged her thinking because she's 18 and worried about men as if she's had enough of them in her short life to be able to speak on it; her descriptions of herself make it look like she's either joking around or sadly mistaken about what life's about; and her pattern is finding men who cheat on her which probably means she's looking for the wrong things in a mate.

I know, I challenged her too. That's why I was confused by the poster who asked why "its always the guy's fault," when everyone on this thread was challenging the woman complaining, not men.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by laylo

I know, I challenged her too. That's why I was confused by the poster who asked why "its always the guy's fault," when everyone on this thread was challenging the woman complaining, not men.

I think he's referring to the poster's "men make me sad" as if it's the men's faults and not hers.