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christinfgcu 11-07-2006 05:25 PM

men make me sad
 
are all men judgemental?

out of all the guys ive dated ive dumped maybe 3 for cheating...the others find other women and make up excuses like sorry christin youre too skinny, or sorry but this just isnt working out.i mean im a good listener, i dont talk to much, im sweet...in my opinion...and yeah im not even that small because im skinny but short...id rather look like i do than be like super ooberfat i suppose....anyway im starting to doubt that theres still decent men out there...this is becoming a sad world:(

DSTCHAOS 11-07-2006 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by christinfgcu (Post 1353257)
are all men judgemental?

No. Perhaps you attract a certain type of man because deep down you're insecure and unhappy.

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Originally Posted by christinfgcu (Post 1353257)
out of all the guys ive dated ive dumped maybe 3 for cheating...the others find other women and make up excuses like sorry christin youre too skinny, or sorry but this just isnt working out.i mean im a good listener, i dont talk to much, im sweet...in my opinion...and yeah im not even that small because im skinny but short...id rather look like i do than be like super ooberfat i suppose....anyway im starting to doubt that theres still decent men out there...this is becoming a sad world:(

Well that certainly sucks.

valkyrie 11-07-2006 06:08 PM

You're right. There are no decent men in the world. They all want ooberfat (LOL by the way -- I think that's the awesomest pretend word I've ever seen) bitches.

blueangel 11-07-2006 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by christinfgcu (Post 1353257)
are all men judgemental?

out of all the guys ive dated ive dumped maybe 3 for cheating...the others find other women and make up excuses like sorry christin youre too skinny, or sorry but this just isnt working out.i mean im a good listener, i dont talk to much, im sweet...in my opinion...and yeah im not even that small because im skinny but short...id rather look like i do than be like super ooberfat i suppose....anyway im starting to doubt that theres still decent men out there...this is becoming a sad world:(

You just haven't found the right guy yet. I doubt they're dumping you because you're short or thin. Weren't you short and thin when you started dating them?

Chances are, they just realized it wasn't a love match, and had to think of something to say to break up. Hang in there!

Unregistered- 11-07-2006 06:36 PM

I find it funny that you listed your physical stats in your profile as if someone's going to ask you A/S/L?

Peaches-n-Cream 11-07-2006 06:54 PM

You're only 18. How many guys have you dated? Maybe you should take a break from dating for a while. Get to know yourself, who you are, what you want, and what you have to offer. That way the next time you will date someone you like instead of dating in order to avoid being alone. I'm not sure if this applies to you, but I have seen several young women do this.

laylo 11-07-2006 07:10 PM

I'm sorry you've dealt with dishonesty and cheating. But I'm disturbed by the listing of "I don't talk too much" and your body type as reasons to consider yourself a good catch. Do you think men are looking for women who are seen and not heard? Beause if you try to play that role, you will continue to be used and walked all over. Why don't you try becoming the best woman you can be for YOURSELF--confidence and purpose will attract the "decent" men.

Scandia 11-07-2006 07:46 PM

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Do you think men are looking for women who are seen and not heard?
Sadly, I have met men who seem to be like that. Even though they do not say sexist things explicitly, if they constantly compliment your looks while their main criticisms of you all have to do with the way you talk (loudness, interruptions, directness, big words), who knows if they are looking for some subservient little damsel who is seen and not heard indeed.

AlexMack 11-07-2006 07:51 PM

A/S/L, cup size and pics plz! Only then can I tell you if you're worthwhile.

AKA_Monet 11-07-2006 08:24 PM

Christin,

Seek professional help. You are only 18 years old. Not all of us are in your age group. A few of us are LCSW. You need help.

GC Hospital Chief of Medicine
Dr. AKA_Monet

PrettyBoy 11-07-2006 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by christinfgcu (Post 1353257)
are all men judgemental?

out of all the guys ive dated ive dumped maybe 3 for cheating...the others find other women and make up excuses like sorry christin youre too skinny, or sorry but this just isnt working out.i mean im a good listener, i dont talk to much, im sweet...in my opinion...and yeah im not even that small because im skinny but short...id rather look like i do than be like super ooberfat i suppose....anyway im starting to doubt that theres still decent men out there...this is becoming a sad world:(

Be patient. 18? You've got plenty of time.

DSTCHAOS 11-07-2006 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1353423)
Be patient. 18? You've got plenty of time.

Yeah, take advice from PrettyBoy. His name certainly doesn't make him superficial or judgmental. :p

(Haven't picked on you in a while)

PrettyBoy 11-07-2006 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1353426)
Yeah, take advice from PrettyBoy. His name certainly doesn't make him superficial or judgmental. :p

(Haven't picked on you in a while)

LMAO. DSTCHAOS, leave me alone.:p

pinkies up 11-07-2006 11:43 PM

Girl, you're just 18!!! If you know like I know, you'd be happy being single and lovin' yourself before you go and latch on to somebody.

USCTKE 11-08-2006 02:57 AM

heres my question...how come when things dont work out its always the guys fault.


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