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11-07-2006, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by christinfgcu
are all men judgemental?
out of all the guys ive dated ive dumped maybe 3 for cheating...the others find other women and make up excuses like sorry christin youre too skinny, or sorry but this just isnt working out.i mean im a good listener, i dont talk to much, im sweet...in my opinion...and yeah im not even that small because im skinny but short...id rather look like i do than be like super ooberfat i suppose....anyway im starting to doubt that theres still decent men out there...this is becoming a sad world  |
Be patient. 18? You've got plenty of time.
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11-07-2006, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
Be patient. 18? You've got plenty of time.
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Yeah, take advice from PrettyBoy. His name certainly doesn't make him superficial or judgmental. 
(Haven't picked on you in a while)
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11-07-2006, 09:54 PM
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Yeah, take advice from PrettyBoy. His name certainly doesn't make him superficial or judgmental.
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LMAO. DSTCHAOS, leave me alone.
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11-07-2006, 11:43 PM
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Girl, you're just 18!!! If you know like I know, you'd be happy being single and lovin' yourself before you go and latch on to somebody.
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11-08-2006, 02:57 AM
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heres my question...how come when things dont work out its always the guys fault.
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11-08-2006, 03:02 AM
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Originally Posted by USCTKE
heres my question...how come when things dont work out its always the guys fault.
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Why surely you cannot be blaming women...why we're all perfectly rational, and communicate properly with our SOs and we're never overly emotional. Nor do we twist words and manipulate men via guilt trips. I can't believe you'd suggest such a thing!
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11-08-2006, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by USCTKE
heres my question...how come when things dont work out its always the guys fault.
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I hope that was a rhetorical. Mature women know how to take blame.
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11-08-2006, 12:50 PM
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If your asking for opinions or lifter uppers(pretend words), I think you should focus on other aspects of your young life. Men come a dime a dozen so have fun with them(not too much). Stop being so serious about relationships with guys and become serious about working on yourself, but have fun while you do it.
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11-08-2006, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted by USCTKE
heres my question...how come when things dont work out its always the guys fault.
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Because there are too damn many women (especially young women) out there who believe this ridiculous culture of manbashing, "your friends are always more important than a guy" a la Sex and the City. You're absolutely right, and I hate it.
No, you shouldn't dump your friends for a guy or put up with things with a guy you wouldn't put up with if he was a female friend. However, that doesn't mean holding the guy to some standard he can never meet.
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11-08-2006, 01:44 PM
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However, that doesn't mean holding the guy to some standard he can never meet.
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What standard is that? How do you know he can never meet them? When he doesn't meet them and claims it's because he can't?
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11-08-2006, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted by pinkies up
Girl, you're just 18!!! If you know like I know, you'd be happy being single and lovin' yourself before you go and latch on to somebody.
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Cosign
Also stop catering to them and start focusing on taking care of yourself. Be yourself, speak your mind, etc etc and don't just tell them everything they want to hear.
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