Dating someone with a mental illness

[paul1]

Well after 2 months she replaced the shirts she threw away .recently she was over using my computer and signed into yahoo mess, I got a offline mess, saying " i miss you " from whom i dont know ( told her it could b ex gf). After 2 days she began asking me about the "i miss you" mess. told her i had no idea really ! After blowing my cell up for hours i turned it off , she came by the next morning early crying saying she is afraid of losing me . Told her now she knows how i felt about her getting a pic on her cell from a ex bf and she agreed . She,s a fantastic lady and i love and adore her dearly . Dont know if i can deal with these mood swings and the relationship seems to b on her time schedule . Peace