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10-11-2006, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Do not take this advice, Paul, dump her and move on with your life.
James will not be there to rescue you when your gf starts to act crazy. If you're seeing other women on the side then you can obviously get sex in a more stable environment. Your gf is disposable...it's not she has a diamond mine in her vagina.
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the relationship is exclusive as far as i know . understand and thank u all for your input . the bp thing is difficult to deal with and now a ex boyfriend sending her pics on her cell , she told me and showed me the pic , just weird and uncool!
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10-11-2006, 11:04 PM
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wow, dude,
actually not wow, it's a pretty common mistake.
If she wasn't bi-polar, it would be cool because then it's just your gf showing you want some guy did b/c she want you to know for whatever reason. Usually to get a little jealous so that they know if some random guy aproached them on the street, you would protect her.
Now, I know this might be hard to accept given the past history, but, that's probably all that was going on here.
Either way, if you break up because of this, it won't her fault.
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10-11-2006, 11:36 PM
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Location: Who you calling "boy"? The name's Hand Banana . . .
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Originally Posted by RU OX Alum
wow, dude,
actually not wow, it's a pretty common mistake.
If she wasn't bi-polar, it would be cool because then it's just your gf showing you want some guy did b/c she want you to know for whatever reason. Usually to get a little jealous so that they know if some random guy aproached them on the street, you would protect her.
Now, I know this might be hard to accept given the past history, but, that's probably all that was going on here.
Either way, if you break up because of this, it won't her fault.
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I disagree with almost all of this.
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10-12-2006, 10:52 PM
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I disagree with almost all of this.
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yeah, good call. My opinion on things like this is warped. But still, I contend that ripping up his birthday shirts is a much more, uh, a much better reason to break up with some one than a picture
DSTChaos is right, if you don't like her as a girlfriend break up with her, you don't have to be her personal jesus
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10-13-2006, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by RU OX Alum
yeah, good call. My opinion on things like this is warped. But still, I contend that ripping up his birthday shirts is a much more, uh, a much better reason to break up with some one than a picture
DSTChaos is right, if you don't like her as a girlfriend break up with her, you don't have to be her personal jesus
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Last night she came over with 3 new shirts , said she was sorry and happy late,late,late bday . sEE THE GUY LEFT A MESSAGE ON YAHOO SAYING HOW MUCH HE MISSED HER , she didnt know this and said i was right it is strange . I know the bp thing is part of her weird actions . Would never break up with her as i love and adore her aND SHE FEELS THE SAME . jUST SOME BUMPS IN THE ROAD . tRYING TO UNDERSTAND this bp thing more . Anyone have any suggestions. She,s a FSU grad with a masters . peace
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10-13-2006, 10:47 AM
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Anyone have any suggestions.
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Either dump her or stop reporting your relationship "bumps" to us.
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10-13-2006, 12:08 PM
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the biplor disorder survival guide is the title of the book...i found it useless except the last chapter, but its mostly for people who live with those with manic deppressioin or bad type I or II
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10-14-2006, 03:41 AM
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Either dump her or stop reporting your relationship "bumps" to us.
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LOL
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10-13-2006, 06:51 PM
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kiss my ass fool ! CUBS RULE
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LOL!
Seriously though, you're only reporting the worst to us so naturally we're going to have a certain opinion of her and your willingness to stay with her. If you're not going to dump her then what more can we tell you other than "uh...be patient if you have that much patience in your cup and time on your hands."
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10-12-2006, 12:07 AM
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the relationship is exclusive as far as i know . understand and thank u all for your input . the bp thing is difficult to deal with and now a ex boyfriend sending her pics on her cell , she told me and showed me the pic , just weird and uncool!
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Do a cost/benefits analysis. If the costs of dating her outweigh the benefits, kick her to the curb. 7 months isn't a lifetime so you can escape now without feeling like you wasted too much time and effort.
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