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Originally Posted by adpiucf
It's a very normal feeling, even if you got your top choice, first choice, etc., to question your decision and your bid. This can happen on and off during the new member period, immediately following initiation, and especially during the first year as a sister on "the other side" once you've been through a formal recruitment as an initiated member.
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I definitely agree. I went through it, and I know of many other women who have as well. In my case, I started having the "what if's" during my first year as an active--the size of my chapter was growing by leaps and bounds, which was a difficult adjustment because it had been pretty small when I pledged only a year earlier. It's also understandable to have these feelings while you're pledging, because you've just finished rush and that's a lot to take in over just a few days. I think the other advice you've gotten is right on--try and stick it out, then if you're still unsure when it's time to initiate, you can opt not to. You always have that choice.
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