Bad Boys - Page 4

mulattogyrl · #46 09-11-2006, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by valkyrie

Yet again, this is a matter of personal preference. If a guy tried to take my coat off for me or pull out my chair, I'd be very annoyed.

You know what? I think it would annoy me too. Once or twice would be a nice gesture, but I couldn't take it all the time. Just sit your azz down. LOL

AlphaFrog · #47 09-11-2006, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl

You know what? I think it would annoy me too. Once or twice would be a nice gesture, but I couldn't take it all the time. Just sit your azz down. LOL

I had an ex that I would literally race to the car because it got annoying that he would always open the car door for me.

KAY10 · #48 09-13-2006, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl

So when you say 'thug', you don't necessarily mean the drug dealer from the street corner, but a man that mistreats women in general?

Exactly.

KAY10 · #49 09-13-2006, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl

I think what starang is saying is women like their men strong, well I do anyway. I like a man who has a strong character and who can be my rock. I don't want a man who's scared to say something to the next man if he disrespects me. I want a man who will stand up for his family. In other words, I don't want a punk. I want strength and courage. That doesn't mean I want a man that beats me, but I want to feel protected by my man. Although I can't spreak for all women, I think that's what many women want in a man. Not saying that women don't also want sensitivity and understanding from their man, but I think some women like more of that and some like a little less. It just depends on the woman.

I feel ya. If I were a woman, I wouldn't want a punk either. But why do you think because a guy treats his woman with the upmost respect makes him weak, as if he's soft and won't protect his woman, household and family?

KAY10 · #50 09-13-2006, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by starang21

and a woman doesn't want a man who's soft either. a man who is masculine can do all of those things and still not be a bitch.

Exactly. It's the ones who don't do these things are the bitches.

KAY10 · #51 09-13-2006, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by valkyrie

Yet again, this is a matter of personal preference. If a guy tried to take my coat off for me or pull out my chair, I'd be very annoyed.

And what does it mean to support someone physically or spiritually?

Today, most woman would be very annoyed at this.

Spiritual can be whatever the woman is going through. It can be anything emotional. Physically means he should be able to fulfill her physical needs. What ever they may be.

KAY10 · #52 09-13-2006, 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl

You know what? I think it would annoy me too. Once or twice would be a nice gesture, but I couldn't take it all the time. Just sit your azz down. LOL

LOL. O.K. that's funny and I'm laughing. The funny thing about this is if a guy doesn't do this and the woman sees another guy doing this for his woman, then she'll give him the silent treatment, and ask him "why don't you pull the chair out for me." You know that's the truth too.

KAY10 · #53 09-13-2006, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

I had an ex that I would literally race to the car because it got annoying that he would always open the car door for me.

Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn!!!!! LOL. What's wrong with that? I guess that's why he's your X. LOL.

KAY10 · #54 09-13-2006, 01:10 AM

I had an X that I opened the door for, and the other things I mentioned. She loved it. In fact she said no guy had ever treated her like that before. Well I ended up cutting her back because she had been with so many thugs it was insane. She was the one I posted in an earlier thread about her having a mental illness. An illness that hadn't been discoverd yet. Well, the thugs probably made her that way. Once I find out a woman has been with a bad boy, to the curb she goes. LOL. I'm not going behind a thug. They can go behind me though.

Today I don't treat woman like I used to. They don't appreciate anyway.

starang21 · #55 09-13-2006, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10

Exactly. It's the ones who don't do these things are the bitches.

but there are also dudes who aren't masculine who do all of the above. and said dudes are the same ones to complain about how nice men finish last. hell, no woman is going to want that. they're basically a tit anyway.

mulattogyrl · #56 09-13-2006, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10

I feel ya. If I were a woman, I wouldn't want a punk either. But why do you think because a guy treats his woman with the upmost respect makes him weak, as if he's soft and won't protect his woman, household and family?

I don't think that.

I think you can be an upmost gentleman and still not be a punk. I'm just not a very romantic person most of the time, so I don't need the car doors opened for me or candlelight dinners or flowers. I'm just happy with the plain old person being themselves. Renting movies and eating Doritos would make me just as happy, probably happier, because we're in the comfort of our own home. I don't like a big fuss. That's just the way I am though, a Plain Jane. lol

valkyrie · #57 09-13-2006, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10

Today, most woman would be very annoyed at this.

Spiritual can be whatever the woman is going through. It can be anything emotional. Physically means he should be able to fulfill her physical needs. What ever they may be.

Eyeroll right back atcha, homes.

As for meeting spiritual/emotional/physical needs, I'm of the opinion that BOTH people in a relationship need to do that.

KAY10 · #58 09-14-2006, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by valkyrie

Eyeroll right back atcha, homes.

As for meeting spiritual/emotional/physical needs, I'm of the opinion that BOTH people in a relationship need to do that.

Yeah both should do this, but I was just talking about the men in this thread.

KAY10 · #59 09-14-2006, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by starang21

but there are also dudes who aren't masculine who do all of the above. and said dudes are the same ones to complain about how nice men finish last. hell, no woman is going to want that. they're basically a tit anyway.

I don't think nice men finish last. See you guys think because a guy is a nice person and is a gentleman to his lady, that he's soft. That's not true. Now if you said soft men finish last, then yeah, I would agree with that.

KAY10 · #60 09-14-2006, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl

I don't think that.

I think you can be an upmost gentleman and still not be a punk. I'm just not a very romantic person most of the time, so I don't need the car doors opened for me or candlelight dinners or flowers. I'm just happy with the plain old person being themselves. Renting movies and eating Doritos would make me just as happy, probably happier, because we're in the comfort of our own home. I don't like a big fuss. That's just the way I am though, a Plain Jane. lol

I don't think opening doors for women is being romantic. I feel ya, I'm not romantic either, never have been and I never will be, but I was just raised to open doors for women. As far as the candle light dinners, oh hell no.

That's not me. I'm more like lets go get a Happy Meal and Mickie Ds and call it a day.

I really don't think opening a door for a lady is romantic though. I open doors for all women. If she's 90 yrs old, I'll do the same, but I damn sure am NOT going to get fresh amd romantic with a 90 yr old woman because I opened the door for her.