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Originally Posted by preciousjeni
Why do you say this?
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Let me explain it this way. Here's what happens, the bad boys usually cheat, physically abuse and verbally abuse their women. After the bad boy is out of her life, and she gets older then she wants a nice guy, and when I say nice guy I'm speaking of a gentleman, not a whimp, of a man that's as soft as drug store cotton. Well the bad boy or thug has made her so insecure with herself by cheating on her or abusing her in some way that when she ends up with the nice guy, those insecurities are still there. Now he has to deal with the insecurities based on who she dated in her past. I hear it a lot. A lot of women love thugs. I mean when she's young, but when she gets older she starts thinking of a man that she can raise a family with, because she knows she can't raise a family with a thug. I just can't see being the rebound guy, especially after some thug. But women seem to get it confused. They tend to think because a guy treats his woman right, that he's soft. That's not true. To me the thugs are the ones that are soft. Any man who puts his hands on a woman will not hit a man. I know that. Now, to me, a man like that is definitely as soft as Rite Aid drug store cotton. The good kind too.
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