Bad Boys

[Scandia]

I could never reject somebody for being too nice. On the contary, I have cut off people once they got sardonic.

People do like other people who are "free spirits", who are not always doing everything by the book. Why? Because those who follow the rules to the letter are often very dull, boring, and can be controlling and not be able to cope with change.

But there is a difference between a free spirit and a bad boy/girl.

I do not know if by being "too nice" she may have meant that he was too phobic, weak, afraid of too many things and did not want to step out of his comfort zone. I did date somebody once who had too many fears and who did not have any activities with me or on his own. He was very nice and sweet- which was great and I would not have changed. But we did not have any more in common that I would have had with any other platonic friend. He liked me more than what I liked him- and he realized it.