What do you feel like saying, right now?

[Sciencewoman]

I ordered 10 boxes of Girl Scout cookies this year! Those Samoas are my favorite!

[AGDee]

Did y'all notice that it was 9:36 PM her time when she said she was JUST getting to bed? I'm up til like midnight every night. She usually posts way later than that. She's definitely exhausted.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by AGDee

Did y'all notice that it was 9:36 PM her time when she said she was JUST getting to bed? I'm up til like midnight every night. She usually posts way later than that. She's definitely exhausted.

I guess I’ll stop cracking jokes Lol. Yeah, I didn’t pay attention to the time until you mentioned it. That’s early as hell. I’ve only noticed she’s not posting. Too tired, I guess.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

LMAO! Sciencewoman is on a roll.


LOL! You seem mad, CG. You usually talk trash back. We just got corner this time. We were just messin with you.

What’d y’all eat for “dinner” last night? Notice how I put dinner in quotes Lol

No, I wasn’t mad, just overwhelmed and tired. Very worried, too. I mean, with the consistent plane crashes and “President” Musk being the cause of them. But I’ll be relieved tomorrow the minute I know my husband’s plane has landed safely.

What’d we have for dinner? Which night? All dishes were superb. Thank you very much!

Originally Posted by Sciencewoman

She's just too tired to trash talk. We got away with it this time.

Nope. Think again, you two haven’t gotten away with anything. I’m taking notes.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

I didn’t think about that. Thought she was mad at first. She hasn’t even posted today. Her kids must have finished her off with their homework, extracurriculars, Girl Scout cookie sales, fighting in the car ride home from school, Lmao! She’s probably face down in a pile of Samoa crumbs right now LOL!

Yes! This! No fighting though, just very annoying playing.

Originally Posted by AGDee

Did y'all notice that it was 9:36 PM her time when she said she was JUST getting to bed? I'm up til like midnight every night. She usually posts way later than that. She's definitely exhausted.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

I guess I’ll stop cracking jokes Lol. Yeah, I didn’t pay attention to the time until you mentioned it. That’s early as hell. I’ve only noticed she’s not posting. Too tired, I guess.

Oh dear, GAWD! I’ll be so glad when my days are back to normal tomorrow, lol. I am SO mentally drained.

[Phrozen Sands]

LOL @ you taking credit for cooking these last 5 days. Those meals you cooked were “superb” because Mr. CG left you his recipes Lol.

Yeah, Musk might as well be the VP. Anybody seen Vance? I haven’t seen that asshole since Trump was elected.

[Cheerio]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

LOL @ you taking credit for cooking these last 5 days. Those meals you cooked were “superb” because Mr. CG left you his recipes Lol.

Yeah, Musk might as well be the VP. Anybody seen Vance? I haven’t seen that asshole since Trump was elected.

The Angry Vance used his mean, loud voice today whilst berating President Zelensky in a tag-team manner with The Donald at The White House. Not a good look for either madman.

[XAntoftheSkyX]

I know it was just for one day, but it hit 60 in the Tokyo area and I was so happy about it.

[cheerfulgreek]

WIFLSRN: Time for church.

[XAntoftheSkyX]

Originally Posted by XAntoftheSkyX

I know it was just for one day, but it hit 60 in the Tokyo area and I was so happy about it.

...Aaaand it's snowing and actually sticking. Am I back in New England?

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by AGDee

I met him 3 weeks after his mom passed. He was living with his mom & dad, working full time and in grad school working on an MBA. I knew his mom did a lot for him, and knew his dad took over the cooking after the mom passed, but I didn't realize how totally useless he was. And of course I didn't know what a slob he was. You can't know this stuff until you live together.

As for talking to him about it all- he didn't really care if the clothes were all over the house. He would be fine living in that chaos. We did go to marriage counseling at 3 different times (for months each time, not like 3 sessions). The last time, we were each going alone once a week and once together. It helped me understand why he was a hot mess, but I couldn't live with his complete inability to function as a cooperative family unit. His childhood was very complicated and he went from basically raising himself to having his parents wait on his every whim. It really messed him up. He had the balls to tell me once that I did nothing. So I went on strike and showed him how things would really look if I did nothing. Dayam, I was up at 5 am to get ready for work and got the kids up and dressed and fed for the day before he even got out of bed. I took them to latch key or day care. I'd pick them up on my way home from work and we'd get home around 5:30 and I'd feed them, get them going on homework, etc. I'd make dinner for us as mentioned earlier. After we ate, I bathed the kids and got them ready for bed. I was exhausted all the time.

We were married for 7 years and I was the one who wanted the divorce.

Wait… so dude thought it was normal to be messy like that? He sounds lazy as hell. For real.

Originally Posted by AGDee

I think they say something quite often but some men have very selective hearing. One thing I said to my ex during marriage counseling is that I wished he would hear me when I talked to him. He only heard me when I yelled. I hated that it ever got to that point. I didn't want to be yelling all the time. He was incapable of seeing something that needed to be done and doing it. That's not true of all men.

If I ever get married again, I will be hiring a cleaning lady because I'm not cleaning up after someone else ever again.

I’m not saying you because you seem like a good woman. But I do think dudes communicate and hear differently than women do. I just don’t like it when chicks assume that I should know what they’re trying to say. Women are more detail-oriented than dudes. We’re simple and so we see things in a simplistic way, and like to be communicated to that way.

Originally Posted by amIblue?

You scored a good one, no doubt. I also have a hunch that you treasure him as much as he treasures you. Best wishes to both of you and your (no doubt) beautiful family.

Yeah, she definitely got a good dude. For real. CG peeped that and nabbed him up real quick LOL!

Originally Posted by XAntoftheSkyX

...Aaaand it's snowing and actually sticking. Am I back in New England?

Lmao @ Xant trying to stay out of the conversation.

[AGDee]

I won't be around much the next week and a half. I'm going to Granada and Sevilla in Spain with my son and his future in-laws - 9 of us all together! I'll be celebrating my 60th birthday there. TKEGuy is kinda sad I'll be gone for my birthday but I'm heading to his place tonight since we're flying out of Chicago tomorrow. This trip was planned before we were a thing. I'll go to his place after we get back too. Not sure how much I'll be online!

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by AGDee

I won't be around much the next week and a half. I'm going to Granada and Sevilla in Spain with my son and his future in-laws - 9 of us all together! I'll be celebrating my 60th birthday there. TKEGuy is kinda sad I'll be gone for my birthday but I'm heading to his place tonight since we're flying out of Chicago tomorrow. This trip was planned before we were a thing. I'll go to his place after we get back too. Not sure how much I'll be online!

Have fun, Dee! And have an awesome birthday. I’m sure you’ll have plenty of fun, interesting stories to post when you get back.

[Cheerio]

Stop the misinformation.

Be quiet & listen.

Learn.

[Phrozen Sands]

LMAO @ this dude. Y’all gotta read this.
https://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/...attle-with-ex/

Told dude she was pregnant and he laughed and said “Ok. Get the abortion.” And this an NBA player. Foul as hell Lol.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

LMAO @ this dude. Y’all gotta read this.
https://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/...attle-with-ex/

Told dude she was pregnant and he laughed and said “Ok. Get the abortion.” And this an NBA player. Foul as hell Lol.

Wow. The way I see this situation is that a dog in heat mates, moves on, and doesn’t look back. That’s expected because it’s an animal. But a man who does the same while pretending to be civilized is a disgrace to both his intelligence and his species. If he won’t act better than a stray dog, he shouldn’t expect to be seen as anything more. Crazy thing is a dog doesn’t pretend to be anything more than what it is. But this dude, on the other hand, had a choice and still chose to be worthless. Smh.