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Originally Posted by ASUADPi
I'm obviously in the minority here, but I don't understand the big deal. Unless you are on a campus where there are 1-3 sororities and 1-3 fraternities, I'm not sure why you are freaking out over your boyfriends frat not "doing things" with your sorority.
Maybe its because I went to a big Greek campus (where with 12 sororities and like 15 fraternities it was more likely you wouldn't "partner" with a fraternity than you would).
You can't change things that happened before you were a member of the chapter. You also can't change the opinions (very easily) of the more established, older members of your boyfriends fraternity.
If it is such a big deal to you (which you should really be finding out if it is a big deal to the rest of the chapter and not just you), you should follow the advice given and try to plan a mixer. If it's only you who really cares that your boyfriends frat isn't hanging out with y'all, you kind of just need to get over it. If your chapter as a whole doesn't care that his frat wants nothing to do with them...you then just need to let it go.
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No you're absolutely right. He told me "my fraternity is moving up in the rankings and socializing with higher tier sororities so we don't need yours". So I guess apart from the drama 2 years ago there's another reason they won't mix with us. It sucks, but I did talk to girls in my chapter and they said not to worry about it and just focus on hanging out with the fraternities that do want to socialize with us. Kind of makes me sad they think they're better than us, but I'm letting it go and focusing on improving relationships with other fraternities.
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