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Originally Posted by SunDevilGreek
4. Finally, this isn't a possessive thing. My little is my best friend- if she takes another big, that's like breaking the bond that brought us together. I know some people aren't very close with their bigs, and maybe in some chapters the big/little relationship is for initiation mostly. Everyone in my chapter puts a huge emphasis on the big/little relationship, so that's why them moving in on her is so hurtful. BECAUSE IT'S A BIG DEAL.
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Yes it is a possessive thing. If something like this can tarnish your relationship, then you really aren't as close as you think or say.
You're not there. You left. It's out of your control. And frankly, if she's already a junior how many girls can really want to take her on as a little for what amounts to a few months before they graduate?
And if she really is being omgtotallycoerced, then she needs to put on her big girl thong and give them a firm, loving and definitive "thanks but no thanks."
Your posts are making both of you sound like drama queens. Maybe that's your real bond.
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