I hate my boyfriend's fraternity

[gem_star17]

Maybe it's because I am not part of a greek org and that is why I cannot understand the intense loyalty. I just know that i love my boyfriend and i really want to be with him forever. that's why i tried to put up with as much crap as i could; but I love myself, too and i really believe that i am deserving of being in a happy relationship. And i could never be happy coming 2nd to his fraternity.

At this point, I know that I won't even be happy being equal to his fraternity. i dont want to possibly spend the rest of my life "sharing" him with his brothers. I've never been married, but in the past he and i have discussed marriage. I kindve have this idea that, once we're married, we are suppossed to belong to each other. other people ( outside our biological families) should not even be a factor.


so, yes- I did tell him that I believe that he should love me more than his fraternity and if he isnt able to do that, then I dont want to be with him. i'm glad he made the "right" decision.

edit: now that i think about it, maybe this is why i am unpopular with his house. maybe this whole time they always suspected i secretly felt this way. but nope, i refuse to ever be friends with them, not after the hell they put me through. ESPECIALLY because they tried to take him away from me. the only one i am friendly with in the fraternity is his younger brother.