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GatorMom, I'm sorry things did not work out with your daughter's legacy chapter. One of my friends experienced this when she rushed at UF several years ago. She was dropped by her legacy, but had a wonderful experience as a sister of another chapter. Mom was upset about it at the time, but her other children pledged her legacy, the elder sister was happy, the younger were happy and life continued for all-- mom was involved with supporting both chapters after the hurt feelings went away.
Please remember that the members of the chapter who are there now are not the same ladies you pledged with. This does not mean they're not a great chapter, but your daughter found the place that was right for her, and I hope she will enjoy her new sisterhood as much as you enjoyed yours. Please don't let this sour you on the school or the Greek System (or the chapter!) that brought you so much happiness when you were her age.
Go Gators! (I can officially say that now that I've been a UF grad student for one week...)
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