Is sex really that big of a deal?

[PrettyBoy]

I don't think it's a big deal at the beginning. Now, eventually I'm gonna be ready to get busy with her, but for the most part, I gotta know the girl for a while before I'm intimate with her. She has to be the one. I've always been a one woman man, so I've never been down with sleeping around with a lot of women, that's why I wouldn't get involved with a woman who has slept with a lot of guys. I didn't and don't sleep around, so I don't think I should be with someone who has. Christiangirl if I were you, I would wait until you either get married or find the right guy. It really is no way to know if you'll get it right the 1st time, that's the risk you'll have to take. Men/women now a days are a trip. People just aren't into long term courting and marriage like they were 50 years ago. It's all about who can I take home from the club tonight, or how can I brag about taking a woman's virginity. Hold out as long as you can. Good luck.