Bad Boys

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by OtterXO

OMG. She wasn't saying she's a horrible person who would take advantage of someone when given the chance. She means that she wants a man who can stand up for himself, not "yes" her to death and have an opinion that isn't directly dependent on HER opinion. She doesn't want a guy who is a freaking doormat because IT'S NOT AN ATTRACTIVE QUALITY. I've heard plenty of guys say that they want the same thing in a woman, so this isn't only about men.

When I said nice guy, not one time did I say doormat or a nice guy is a guy who says yes and if you say jump he says how high. Why do women consider this a nice guy? I was reading all these post and virtually all of them describe a nice guy as being soft and a whimp. That's proof right there that most women believe that a nice guy is considered to be a whimpy mama's boy who can't make his own decisions. Ladies......this is not a nice guy. This is a boy not a man.

The difinintion that I have for a nice man is one who knows how to treat a lady like a gentleman should treat a lady, not one who can't make up his own mind.

A nice woman is a woman who not only respects herself, but one who has her own opinions and is able to make her own decisions and one who also wants a man that repsects her and treats her like a lady.

The bad boy is the player, user, and the one who disresprects women every chance he gets. Based on these post it seems to me that women feel this is the definition of a strong man.