Trying to feel comfortable in new sorority

[HappyMom2]

Hi! I have been reading these forums for a while now trying to help my daughter get ready for sorority recruitment. She had a pretty good recruitment until the last day. In the end, she did not get her first choice and doesn't feel comfortable in her new sorority. Yes, she rushed at a very competitive school and should be happy with any bid, but she really loved one and went to their preference party and got her hopes up for that one. She is still talking to the girls in that sorority, texting, etc. She just wasn't high enough on their bid list apparently. Anyway, she wants to love her new sorority, but doesn't. Have any of you been in a similar situation and what made you grow to love your sorority? What do you love about being Greek? Thanks for your advice?