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Originally Posted by ree-Xi
Huh?? For the past month, you've been mooning and complaining that the collegiate Greeks didn't want you, and two days later, you've suddenly "seen the light"????
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Actually taking the time to consider how I and my friends felt at eighteen (because like all of us, I've been there) when older women were interested in spending time with us and comparing that how (in all likelihood) others felt when I went through recruitment a few months ago can serve as a major kick in the backside. Hindsight is always 20/20.
I was invited to join my hometown Junior League as a provisional member when I was 21, after a friend of my Mother's indicated to the group that I might be a very nice potential member. Attended several events in member's homes, chatted, learned about and gained a healthy respect for the organization. I declined the invitation, because in my heart of hearts, I knew that wasn't the right fit for me at the time. I also would have been the youngest by about seven years if I'd decided to join, and that prospect felt a bit strange.
No harm, no foul.
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