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					Originally Posted by  DeltaBetaBaby
					 
				 
				No, but I believe that the average chapter member actually has no idea how invite lists are constructed. 
			
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 That must vary from school to school because I am certain the school where I advised the actives are well aware of this process.  
I have certainly understood the initial reluctance to believe The OP's story, but after reading all of this, I do believe it.  Even at a large SEC school rumors, trash talking, vengeance, etc takes place and the info spreads up and down the street. Heck, rush operates under the guise of hearsay - "i hear she wants to be a xyz, we shoukd release her" so this situation is very plausible. 
Each chapter may have a different way to handle the negative PNM info they receive - possibly a written complaint is filed? Don't know.  And, possibly in this case there is some kernel of truth in the letter. Don't know.
But, I , like Ellebud, do believe it can happen. With all of the craziness of rush - I believe anything can happen. I have seen some if it, and it isn't all sisterhood and sunshine.
And I agree with 28 stgreek.  These girls TALK.  The drama of voting sessions is often leaked.