Thanks everyone for the advice! Well maybe I will just explain to her that it is really weird, but the surprise sounded good as well. My friend was telling me about Tufts rush, and although I don't remember the specifics, it sounded really strange.
Also, if tri-delt isn't required to give a bid on pref then maybe my sister lied about prefing the other house. With all of the pressure, I wouldn't blame her for doing so. I would feel embarrassed too. I was honestly quite surprised she didn't pref them. So maybe there is my explanation.
Oh and should I have my grandma fill out the legacy intro form even though I'm not a legacy through her? Tri-delta only considers daughters and sisters legacies, not granddaughters. I'm definitely having my mom fill out one, but I wasn't too sure about my grandma. I don't think she filled out one for my sister. She may have just written a letter and called 5 million times.
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