Good at recruitment =/= good chapter or sisterhood
Bad at recruitment =/= bad chapter or sisterhood
Formal recruitment is such a crap shoot. It works out for most of us because frankly in any group of 100 women (plus or minus whatever it takes) there are going to be plenty of women we connect with. But seriously, your future best friend in the world could be the girl sitting in the basement working the numbers all week.
The girl I loved loved loved during rush was never a friend after pledging. Man she was great at rush, but it was all fake. There were lots of girls who joined because of her who had to re-evaluate and find other friends fast after pledging. Thankfully the rest of the house (who were generally not great rushers) were sweet and genuine and very chill.
You only THINK you fit better with the other house, but you aren't basing that on anything real. Chin up and go be a good sister!
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