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Originally Posted by 33girl
I'm missing something here. If he was Greek, why didn't he just lavalier you with HIS letters?
The OP's girlfriend wants a full out candlepass. If he's non Greek, there are two options: 1) promise ring or something similar 2) SHE lavaliers HIM with HER letters.
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If this was to me (I'm not sure it is): In my post I made it clear that in my chapter your big sister gives you your lavaliere, however I received a silver one and everyone knew I wanted a gold one. He got me the gold one.
Also, he did give me his letters and we are now broken up but on very good terms so in response to those wondering what happens after, I kept mine. This works for US, I don't know about anyone else, but b/c his brothers and chapter were instrumental in me meeting the women who eventually became my sisters there is a bond b/t myself and many of the older members in his organization. So it's not just about my ex for me. He knows I respect his fraternity and so it was never an issue to give the lavalier back. That works for us, it may not work well or at all for others.