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Originally Posted by lkjl2007
I started crying, and my Rho Chi tried to comfort me by saying how she didn't know why it happened, she could really see me in some of the houses I had wanted, sometimes the computer screws up, and so on.
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That is a line of BS. Sure, they may screw up, but it's highly unlikely. More likely than not, the groups you like did not extend you an invitation. I hate it when Recruitment Counselors fill PNMs' heads with this type of crap just to make them feel better. It makes us all look bad and de-legitimizes the process.
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Originally Posted by lkjl2007
I made the decision to drop out of recruitment, because I knew I didn't want to join that one house that had asked me back. They are a small house and really trying to increase their numbers, and maybe only asked me back because of that!
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I've seen plenty of houses that were trying to increase their numbers who didn't invite everyone back. Why don't you trust that maybe they liked you or wanted to know more about you?