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Originally Posted by uk2011
So I know that a lot of people are going to beat you up on this, but I completely understand. I got cut from two houses where I really felt at ease and the girls kept telling me how much they wanted to see me back the next day. When I got my schedule the next day, I saw that they had both cut me, and that I was going back to a house where I sat in awkward silence for 45 minutes. I didn't feel comfortable there at all, and the girls that I talked to acted like they were bored out of their mind.
I was completely shocked at the way it turned out, because it just seemed so random. I still don't know what happened, but on Pref night, I went back to another house I initially didn't really care for, and the girls were wonderful. I didn't end up joining that house, but I gained a newfound appreciation for them. I do love where I ended up but what was so hard for me was that the girls in the first two houses seemed so fake and I couldn't understand why they were telling me they loved me and hoped to see me back and then they cut me. I guess I'll never know.
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Just because a sorority, who loved and wanted to see you come back, ended up cutting you does not mean they were fake. While I do not know their reason for doing so, I do know that sororities have many new girls they would love to see join them. Still, they cannot invite every single one of them. It is not possible for them to accept every girl that they want. Sororities can only take a certain number of girls.
To the original poster, don't expect things to change if you go through recruitment again with an attitude like that.
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